Love is not being controlled, called filthy names, love is not slapped, cursed at,spit on, punched, kicked, laughed at, made fun of, ridiculed, beat on, have your hair pulled out, being degraded, being made to feel worth less, being forced to having sex, being raped, being burned, being forced to sleep in a dog pen, being forced to sleep in a garage, being with held food ,sleep, clothes, being forced to surrender all your money or your worldly possessions, feeling threatened, being manipulated, being lied to, being used, being forced to eat dog or cat food, being cut, being knifed, burned,tortured, being forced to suffer, being forced to wear a dog chain or dog collar, being sodomized, being drugged, forced to lose weight, threatened, being forced to do any thing that is mentally, emotionally, physical or spiritual that is harmful to you or life threatening.
Being forced to do any thing that you feel is mentally, emotionally, spiritually or psychically wrong. Also love is not a being a punching bag for no one. Being told you need to lose weight or you need to change the clothes you wear, or the way you are,and love is not staying with a spouse that cheats on you with other woman or men.
Church we need to give hope where things seem hopeless,we need to believe when every one is doubting,we need to encourage when every one wants to mock.
Church we need to show Christ love!!!!